Are you a jealous type and you feel that at this time something is really wrong? Or maybe you feel that something has changed and it’s certainly not the weather?
Many of us are cursed with paranoid thoughts which are most likely followed by idiotic actions but if you feel that this time it’s different you have to watch out.
Let see a few signs..
Besides the obvious – like a hickey on the neck; or a slightly more sophisticated public appearance with the ex, whilst holding on to the explanation “this is not what you think, we are just friends” or of course the obvious: see them making out.
1. He is too kind suddenly – this is only a problem if he was rude, ignorant and things has just changed recently without any reason. (now don’t get suspicious after each red rose…)
2. He is moody. If he has no work or family problems and he is moody for no reason…
3. Changes his style. Jeans to suit, tee for shirt… You have to please the “lady” after all. New accessories, new shoes, too frequent visit to the barber… If he wasn’t like that before it’s most likely for her or as for the accessories FROM her.
4. You are not having sex as often as you used to.
5. He doesn’t say that he loves you.
6. He doesn’t want to get close to you physically – kiss, hug, that pinch on the butt what he always used to give when passing behind or whatever it was in your case.
7. Starts a new hobby and doesn’t involve you at all.
8. He is too much time (out of the ordinary) at the computer, hiding it from you, or even gets you another computer just so he can have that one full time.
9. Takes off the wedding ring – too tight, inconvenient for sports etc..
10. Doesn’t plan ahead anymore – at least in regards to the 2 of you.
11. He is looking for mistakes in everything at home, doesn’t like your meals, critisises your figure, mad at the children – “because it’s your fault that 2nd grade is so difficult!!”
12. He doesn’t want to know your problems anymore.
13. He “disappears” for the whole afternoon when he goes out to get batteries for the remote and you can’t reach him. When finally arrives home, he gives you the most ridiculous reasons for not contacting you or not getting back so long.
14. He goes for walks, drives, swims, whatever – ALONE.
15. He never ever leaves his mobile phone anywhere, and even if he puts it down, it’s always facing down. Some phones display the text straight away and most display who is it from.
16. He comes home late all the time from work, has too many meetings after business hours. But these occasions last until 1 or 2am in the morning..
17. He brings up the end of your relationship, talks about divorce.
18. Needs a holiday alone. These holidays are usually with the lover.
19. You find receipts of gifts you have never received, perfume, lingerie, clothes, which is not yours, different scent of perfume you use.
20. You can’t see into his finances. He gets a new credit card, splits the account for no particular reason.
The list is endless really. Different things go for different kind of people. Use this list wisely, don’t think the worst all the time, because sometimes that bouquet of flowers is just a bouquet of flowers to say sorry that he didn’t have time for you last week…
